celebration · fitness

It’s Mother’s Day! Time to Celebrate!

Happy Mother’s Day to all who are celebrating today. It’s time to honor, remember, reflect, distract, comfort, eat with, cook for, sit by, think about, talk about, not talk about, or hang out with the mothers we know, knew, love, loved, etc.

Last year I wrote about a Mother’s Day mountain bike race I did a long time ago. There were three of us in my beginner division, two moms plus me.

Moving on Mother’s Day

For today, I’m sharing a post I wrote in 2019 with a picture of my mom, Beth, and a compendium of Mother’s Day and mother-related posts that some of us have written.

I wish you all a good day, and see you next week.

fitness · fitness gifts

Special gifts for activity-engaged moms? Some ideas from the internet

This year I’m not with my mother for Mother’s Day. We are still in the middle of final exams at my university, and I’ve got loads of grading to do before I can commence my summer plans. But I’m thinking of her, and also thinking of mothers all over the world today. And if you are, too, you might be thinking this:

What can I give a mom this year?

Yes, I know, it’s almost Mother’s Day. But, in my experience, moms are very patient, especially about last-minute gifts. So here are some ideas, culled from the internet, for your potential buying pleasure:

Jewelry is a classic gift for anyone, which includes mothers. And Good Morning America wants to make sure that sports-loving moms aren’t left out. They suggest these 18kt gold studs in the shapes of (among other things) a football, a baseball mitt, and a golf bag. Who wouldn’t be delighted at these?

If you are searching for a more practical sporty gift for Mom this year, here are a few options from the same GMA folks:

Another gift list is bullish on the Hypersphere Mini, which they are touting “For superior pain relief and massage”.

GMA also wants to make sure that the mom in your life has the ability to bring her salad when she’s on the go to her gym, hiking trip, tennis match, yoga class or Olympic weight lifting trial. Enter the $70 Yeti insulated salad bowl:

One gift I don’t recommend, as this strikes me as sending a not-so-positive message for the mom in your life, but you do you:

This was on the list of Mother's Day gifts, but I wouldn't.
A “pair of playful deodorizers eliminates footwear funk with a natural blend of odor neutralizers and a fruity shape that fits all kinds of shoes and boots.”This was on the list of Mother’s Day gifts, but I wouldn’t. I just wouldn’t.

Perhaps the best Mother’s Day gift advice comes from REI, so I leave you with their wise words:

For any mom (outdoorsy or not): a handwritten card or thoughtful note. This truly is the best gift, as it shows thoughtfulness and care. Whether purchasing items or not, deliver it with a note of some some sort. Remember: it’s the thought that counts.

Happy Mother’s Day, everyone!

Sat with Nat · Tendinitis, recovery from injury

Nat trusts that silly little physio exercises will make a big difference

A couple weeks ago I shared how I gave myself tennis elbow by knitting.

It still hurts. And if I’m not warmed up I have trouble lifting my arm by hinging at the elbow.

I was talking to my friend Jess and she gently teased me.

“Have you told Emily?”

Me: “noooooo”

Jess: “You know she will give you a silly little exercise and it will get better.”

I did know. The brilliance of a skilled physiotherapist is dialing in to exactly what is wrong. More than that, they then find the precise movement that will address the root cause of the injury.

I’m in the maintenance phase of addressing my wobbliness on the bike so already had an appointment coming up.

At my appointment yesterday, I mentioned that I had tendinitis on my right elbow before. It took about 9 months to heal. I knew that this bout on the left side was definitely a result of knitting more than 30 hours in one weekend.

I’m super stressed these days. Knitting serves as a focus for nervous energy. The rhythmic movements are soothing. Understanding how to execute the pattern is cognitively absorbing. There’s no opportunities for my worries to find me.

A knitting book lays open across my thighs showing ankle socks with a fold down cable cuff. On top of the book is an in progress sock with the cable cuff done in a goldenrod yellow yarn.

Did I just describe a kind of dissociation? Absolutely.

Am I happy I that I hurt myself?

Nope. Kind of embarrassed, actually.

So I recounted all of this to Emily, who reassured me that they had helped many a knitter with this exact problem. Even better, it will be resolved in a couple weeks!

So after exploring the extent of my injury, Emily broke out the ultrasound.

I then got treated to a series of whole arm manipulations and some intense forearm, uh, let’s call it “massage”. Lots of adhesions and bumps in there. Owie!

My homework is 3 sets of 12 of palm down wrist curls… with a twist.

On my injured side I’m using my other hand to help raise the weight. I then let my injured arm do the downward movement under control on its’ own.

It’s a silly little exercise but I was surprised how weak both arms were.

Emily laughed. “You get to do the gym bro pose!”

As a desk jockey, cyclist, gardener, knitter, crocheter, bead worker and bread maker I had assumed my forearms were getting enough variety of movement to be strong and resilient. Nope!

So 5lb assisted wrist curls it is. All hail the gym bro move!

Oh and I need to stay off the knitting until I build up my strength.

I’m so thankful for Jess nudging me.

I’m thankful for access to Emily’s expertise.

It’s easy for me to fall into thinking each injury is the one that signals an inevitable spiral of decrepitude. The slow moves of death stealing ability away from me. Ya. My mind goes to dark places. It’s why I knit so much!

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Mitigating the factors that influence dementia: what research can tell us

Last December, I shared with FIFI readers how I am one of 51,000 Canadians contributing to science and knowledge by participating in the Canadian Longitudinal Study on Aging. In addition to the information I found about calcium depletion in bone mass, I also found some interesting data on hearing loss, depression, heart disease and dementia.

Image shows a group of people dressed in warm clothing walking together along a trail. Photo by Bonnie Kittle on Unsplash

Last week CBC news reported on more promising results relating to reducing the risk of dementia as well as stroke and depression. One of the researchers interviewed by the CBC, Lindsay Wallace, highlighted the most influential factors that affect dementia, stroke and depression: “Physical activity is gonna lower your cholesterol, lower your blood sugar, lower your blood pressure. It affects all these different pathways that lead to age-related disease.” An assistant professor at Dalhousie University who studies dementia and frailty, Wallace was also a co-author in another study that identified 26 population health interventions. Along with individual action, she said, “there has to be a structural and societal change that mirrors that.”

Let’s take a look at what the study found. To start, here are four factors that will help reduce your risk for dementia, stroke, and depression (emphasis added to highlight fitness-related factors): 

  • Challenging your brain by reading or doing puzzles
  • Engaging in moderate or high levels of physical activity
  • Ensuring your life has purpose 
  • Reducing or eliminating alcohol (drinking less than one drink a day is way better than downing one to three)

The meta analysis also identified 11 factors that would increase your risk for those issues:

  • High blood pressure
  • Kidney disease 
  • Smoking
  • High blood sugar
  • Poor or disrupted sleep
  • High body mass index
  • Hearing loss
  • Depressive symptoms
  • General stress or stressful life events
  • Pain
  • High cholesterol

Of the 11 factors listed above, six can be directly mitigated by regular exercise. Ideally, you want to integrate regular activity every day. This doesn’t mean you have to train for a marathon seven days a week, but if you move your body intentionally three to five days a week — walking, swimming, running, dancing, weight lifting, etc — you can improve your sleep, elevate your mood, and reduce the impact of stress on your body. Movement will also help keep your blood flowing (blood pressure, cholesterol, and overall cardiac health) and help your body process food more efficiently.

What I found most interesting were these two factors, which can have either protective or detrimental impacts: 

“Diet: a diet high in vegetables, fruit, nuts, fish and dairy decreased your risks of developing a brain-related condition, but a diet high in red meat, sugary beverages, candy and excess salt increased the risk. 

Social engagement: a large social network was found to be good for the brain, while loneliness or isolation was bad for it.”

From a fitness point of view, a nutritious diet helps fuel our bodies and our brains so we can do the things we want to do while a strong social network keeps us connected. We can work out with friends, walk our dogs with neighbours, or just sit and enjoy the view with our loved ones.

What stood out for me was that most of these factors are manageable with a measure of agency, or control, or decision-making with respect to our health. We may not be able to eliminate the genetic cards we are dealt, but we can make better choices with respect to reasonable interventions. However, many people live with food insecurity, live in unsafe, inadequate housing, or prioritize heat and light bills over other costs. Their ability to mitigate those critical factors is limited. That is why we need to make sure our health and social infrastructures are properly financed and maintained.

In public health, we talk a lot about the determinants of health—the range of personal, social, economic, and environmental factors that influence individual and population health outcomes. These include things like income, education, housing, employment, access to healthcare, social supports, and environmental exposures. While personal behaviours like exercise and diet matter, they do not exist in a vacuum.

For example, someone living in a walkable neighbourhood with access to green spaces is more likely to engage in regular physical activity than someone living in an area with poor infrastructure and safety concerns. Likewise, it’s easier to eat a healthy diet when nutritious food is affordable and available in your community. This is why addressing the root causes of poor health must go beyond individual lifestyle choices and take into account the structural conditions in which people live.

This research reinforces something we already know but often overlook: health is not just about biology or personal responsibility. It is also deeply shaped by the world around us. If we want to help more people age well and reduce their risk for conditions like dementia, stroke, and depression, we need to build environments that support healthy living for everyone. That means investing in housing, transit, food systems, community centres, and preventive care—alongside promoting movement, mental engagement, and connection. Just saying eat better, work out more, and have lots of friends isn’t enough.

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The FIFI Bloggers and Community involvement,  #DailyWritingPrompt

What do you do to be involved in the community?

Diane

I do things for causes I care about. I care about lot about the environment, food security, and swimming safety. There is some overlap in these activities.

For the environment, I cycle as much as possible for transportation, and volunteer with a safe cycling organization.

Food security (with a healthy dose of environment thrown in) involves volunteering with a food harvesting organization as well as contributing to two community garden plots. The local food bank benefits from both.

For swimming safety, I volunteer as a swim angel for a local open water event, as well as teaching swimming (paid, but still a choice of how to spend my retirement).

Oh, and I organize coffee hour at my church, because the community runs better with coffee and conversation.

coffee mug surrounded with coffee beans
Coffee. Photo by Toni Cuenca on Pexels.com

Christine

I run (as a volunteer) a community arts organization that I founded in 2005. We focus on creating opportunities for people to play with their creativity and for artists to connect with their audiences.

I also donate time and skills to other organizations.

And I have big ‘Mom energy’ so I am one of those people checking to see if strangers are ok and helping parents and seniors at the supermarket.

I’m very much of the opinion that we are all in this together and we need to look out for one another.

photo of woman running beside her child
This isn’t Christine. But I did an image search in the WordPress free photo app for “big mom energy” and got this. Photo by RUN 4 FFWPU on Pexels.com

Sam

I don’t do a lot of community things here in Guelph as I’m mostly too busy with my role as Dean of Arts at the university. But I am connected to the community in a bunch of ways through my dean’s role. For example, in that capacity I chair the board of the Art Gallery of Guelph.

I am a member of the Guelph Coalition for Active Transportation (GCAT) and a member of the Guelph Community Boating Club.

Speaking of bikes and Guelph, I’m also looking forward to our annual Pride Ride coming up soon. Oh, and Sarah and I do some charity bike riding each summer. You can join us this year as we ride with the Spinning Wheels Relay to help raise funds for Parkinsons Canada.

Martha

Giving back to the community is important to me. I have volunteered for many years as a board member for various groups promoting mental health, craft and professional communications. I’ve served as a general director, a treasurer, vice-president and president of various groups. I bake a lot so at least twice a year I donate cakes to fundraisers as I cannot stand selling tickets. 

🙂

 I’m wrapping up my last volunteer gig in the next two months and I am going to take a few months to assess what I want to do in the future.

happiness is a piece of cake close up photography
Photo by Antonio Quagliata on Pexels.com

Catherine

I do a lot of volunteer and donation work for my church and surrounding community, activities for the LGBTQ students at my university (lately holding a card-making event this spring). Since January 20, I resumed attending some meetings and demonstrations to advocate for democratic principles and freedom from tyranny (as well as donating to organizations and individuals doing this work). All of us know people who are in immediate need, and I try to help through Go Fund Me, other private donations, giving clothes and household goods when it comes up. I am so lucky to be as secure as I am, and it is thanks to my community that I flourish. Helping others is a welcome responsibility.

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Use your voice. Photo by Polina ⠀ on Pexels.com

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Swim shorts

Recently, I had a lovely interaction with a tall woman at the pool, and she got me wishing for new swim gear, again.

She was wearing cute flowered bicycle shorts with a sports bra, because she can’t find a one-piece that works on her very long torso. I have written about this challenge before, and the only thing that has changed is that I am increasingly bold about asking other people about where they got their non-standard suits and what they like about them.

Apparently; bicycle shorts with no padding work pretty well, though having them in proper swim fabric would be even better. a wider selection of colours and sizes available just when people are starting to think about summer swimming would be great!

Sports bras are much more of a problem: someone really needs to make one with a zipper or a back clasp, ideally with no pads, and keep it in stock beyond the end of April.

After lots of searching, I did manage to find a pair of flowered swim shorts and a matching sports bra top in my size. We’ll see how it goes.

I’m still looking for that perfect pair of longer swim shorts/bicycle shorts in swim fabric, and a bra top I can remove without feeling like it should be an Olympic sport. Wish me luck!

Five styles of swim or swim bicycle shorts,

What do you wear to the pool or beach? Have you tried long-sleeved bathing suits, or tunics and leggings (whether for modesty or to prevent sun exposure)? How do you weigh a decent fit against ability to move easily in the water?

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Fit Feminist Issues in the News

First, this week began with No Diet Day. We wished our readers a Happy No Diet Day!

And then, as if on cue, Weight Watchers filled for bankruptcy. See I hate you Weight Watchers for past personal context.

Also, in the “fit is a feminist issue” news department….

🏋️ Olympic Athlete Majority: People With Differences In Sex Development Deserve Inclusion In Sports

“The participation of women in sports in modern times has always been controversial. For a long time, women were not allowed to compete based on some bogus claims about their constitutions. Now, most of the debate is around who counts as a woman, and a new survey looked at one aspect of this: how actual athletes feel about the inclusion of women with a difference in sex development (DSD). And the vast majority are for it.”

🥕 The Rise of the ‘Crunchy Teen’ Wellness Influencer

High schoolers are appealing to other health-conscious kids online, sometimes by expressing views in line with the “Make America Healthy Again” movement.

👵 Researcher leads first-ever study of Canadian ‘SuperAgers’

Professor Angela Roberts, speaking about her research on Super Agers, those in their 80s, 90s and 100s who are thriving. They have discovered several commonalities in their subjects

– they generally walk at least 9,500 steps per day

– they generally have 45 minutes per day of active movement beyond the walking

– they all have a very positive outlook on life

– they all maintain strong social connections with family, friends or their community at large.

💪 Scientists Find Just 30 Minutes of Weight Training Boosts Muscle Growth

“The small study, which was published in Medicine & Science in Sports & Exercise, had 42 healthy men and women follow a lifting program with one set of eight to 10 reps for each exercise that was either train to failure (pushing yourself until you can’t do more reps with the right form) or leaving reps in reserve (pushing themselves but still having energy to do more).

The participants cycled through nine exercises that targeted major muscle groups twice a week for eight weeks. Each session was done in 30 minutes. Afterward, the researchers analyzed them for changes in muscle thickness in select areas of the body, as well as measures of muscle strength, power, and endurance.

The researchers discovered that all of the participants had muscles that were bigger and stronger than they were at the beginning of the program. But the changes were similar in men and women who pushed themselves until they couldn’t do more reps (train to failure) with the right form or those who still had energy to do more (reps in reserve).”

mindfulness · Wordless

What Does Less Is More Really Mean?

Lately, I’ve been receiving the same message from various quarters in my life. The message is this: I can do less, in a less is more way. I can push less. I don’t need to try so hard. I can trust the universe. That all sounds almost dangerous, especially the trust part. Also, how can I be less-is-more without diminishing myself? The message is hard to receive, because, at first blush, it seems to align with a long-held, not-so-happy belief—that I am too much. I talk too much and laugh too loud. I am too bossy, too excitable, too energetic, take up too much space, too, too and too. You get the point. Sometimes I feel like I’ve been getting this too-much message since I was born (at a sub optimal moment that I was told negatively impacted my father’s career).

Yet I know (in that deep knowing way) that this time the words are not coming as criticism. Rather, they arrive as an invitation to be more myself, which sounds paradoxical, since the message is about less. Do less. Yes, and…be more. Less noise. More presence.

What does this mean in my day-to-day? Well, in the learning groups I facilitate and the 1:1 coaching I do, it means—ask one question, without refining it fifteen times to get just the right word or adding seven more layered questions, with icing flourishes in between. Ask one question. Then wait for the answer. Literally.

And metaphorically. Trust that the energy I want to share with others will be felt without me doing a jig, standing on my head and waving a fiery sparkler. I am enough, without needing to push my energy out into the world. This feels like the difference between authenticity and personal brand.

As you can see here, I am still very much in the wrestling phase with these ideas. I haven’t corralled them into a coherent narrative of how I will be going forward. I am exploring a new equilibrium between my exuberance and trusting my presence.

Enough.

diets · fitness · weight loss

Happy International No Diet Day! – May 6, 2025

Photo by Nick Fewings on Unsplash

Over the years we’ve written a lot about dieting here on the blog,  almost all of it in keeping with the themes of No Diet Day.

Here’s a sampling of our posts across the years:

🍇 Why diet culture harms us

🍊 If Diets Don’t Work, Then What?

🥨 Why we need to stop diet talk

🍟 Three Amazing Rants about Food, Nutrition, and Weight Loss

🍅 Dieting and magical thinking

🌭 Book Review: If Not Dieting, Then What?

🥗 I hate you Weight Watchers

🍰 Celebrity and its impact and influence on diet culture

🥑 Celebrity diets: they’re still diets and they still don’t work

🍒 This week in diet fallacies: appeal to Oprah

🍞 Sam’s worries about dieting and eating disorders: The early years!

ADHD · health · injury · rest

Christine’s Current Conundrums

Conundrum #1

As I work towards healing the muscles in my back, neck, and shoulders, I need to do a certain amount of movement to keep the circulation up, to create ease, and to maintain mobility but I can’t do too much or I will end up hurting myself and have a setback. 

How can I tell if I am doing enough or doing too much?

It’s a conundrum – there’s actually no way to tell, it’s something that everyone has to kind of figure out for themselves.

I hate that for me because I really have NO IDEA how hard I am working at any given time – even when I am not injured – so I can’t compare how I am moving now to how I moved last time (even if ‘last time’ was 5 minutes ago.)  

I’m sure you can see how that makes it very challenging to take a ‘do what you can, evaluate, then make adjustments next time’ approach for this healing process. 

I know a lot of people with ADHD mention having issues with this sort of thing – a lack of perception regarding our efforts – so it seems to be one of those challenges that everyone has but is often exacerbated by ADHD. 

The whole ‘how much is enough/how much is too much’ is really an unanswerable question loop so I’m really just going to hope for the best. 

Conundrum #2

I woke up on Sunday morning with the sort of panicky thoughts that usually only show up when I am having the sort of migraine that doesn’t involve any actual headache. I thought that was odd until I sat up, my stomach turned and I realized that I *was* having a migraine. 

I took a migraine pill, slept for another few hours, and then felt pretty ok until about 9pm on Sunday night when I suddenly stressed myself out about something and my stomach turned again.  Next thing, I was lying in bed with my migraine hat on , listening to cello music , putting an ice cube in my mouth, holding a hot water bottle to my stomach, and trying to find some ease.

Did I actually have the same migraine all day but the meds in the morning put it in the background? Or did getting stressed out bring on a new migraine? Or did a pre-existing migraine make me more vulnerable to getting suddenly stressed out and the stress just brought the symptoms to the foreground again? 

Is there even any point in asking myself these questions?

Since I haven’t ever been able to reliably predict my migraines there’s probably no point in going through the thought-loop but it would take a lot of energy to stop myself so I might as well travel the loop until it burns itself out.

Conundrum #3

After my Sunday night migraine,  my Monday self felt pretty lousy but I also had a bunch of tasks that I needed to do.

If I had felt any worse, I would have just taken to my bed like a Victorian lady and called it a day but I wasn’t that kind of sick. It was a ‘take it easy’ day, not a ‘grind to a halt’ day so, basically, I was in the same kind of loop as the ‘enough/too much’ question above except with work and rest.

Rest is important, obviously,  but my day wouldn’t be very restful if I couldn’t put those tasks out of my head, especially since I knew people would be checking in with me about them. (I never want to risk getting extra email.)

The best answer would be to identify the most important tasks and work on those but that brings me to a different challenge: 

Prioritization is extremely difficult for me under the best of circumstances and a day in which I am very tired and recovering from a migraine was not the best of circumstances – especially since my ADHD meds are less effective when I haven’t slept well. 

And if my meds are less effective, it not only affects my ability to prioritize, it also affects my ability to concentrate on my work so I am going to be slower and less focused.

So, I basically spent a good chunk of Monday putting a lot of mental effort into my attempts to prioritize/cut back on my work for the day so I could rest. 

Conundrum #4

As I got towards the end of my day, I discovered another conundrum:

Am I too tired/out of sorts to take Khalee for a walk or will taking Khalee for a walk actually make me feel better?

Luckily, I quickly figured out the correct answer for that one:

And about 5 minutes after we got home, it started to hail (just a little, but still!) so I was really glad that my ‘Will a walk help?’ loop was far shorter than the others. 

Conundrum #5

My final loop of the day was ‘Do I feel up to writing a post for the blog? What am I going to write about? Should I write about this loopy day? Will anyone want to read about that? Am I just being self-indulgent and whiny?’

And maybe I am being self-indulgent and whiny but I also know that I often feel better when I read posts like this. When other people write posts like this they always remind me that I am not alone in my frustrations, and thought loops, and in my efforts to make my way out of ordinary, fairly low-stakes conundrums. 

So perhaps today is my turn to do that for you.

It’s ok to get caught in conundrums – thought loops happen to everyone.

It’s ok to struggle to balance things and lots of us find it hard to figure out how to rest. 

There’s nothing wrong with you if it feels like AllOfTheThings are in your way today. 

Please be kind to yourself as you make your way along.