I keep trying to coax myself into picking up daily or weekly activities but I keep getting thrown off and having to start over.
But instead of being hard on myself about that I’m heading in a different direction…
Maybe this is just not my season for adding daily/weekly activities but since I still feel drawn toward doing something more, I have decided to pick 10 activities to do this month.
Khalee looks so pensive here but I’m pretty sure she was just trying to ignore me. Image description: Khalee, a light brown medium sized dog wearing a harness facing to the left in the photo so we can only see the left side of her face and upper body. She is staring at the fallen leaves on the path ahead of here and she has her mouth opened a little
And I can do them at any time, in any order, and however I want to do them.
Here’s my list:
Flail along with a Zumba dance video (they won’t be flailing, just me)
Do a yoga video that is longer than 30 minutes
Do a meditation session that is longer than 10 minutes
Do a strength training session with exercise bands
Write in my journal while on the floor
Walk to a meeting
Spend at least 20 minutes stretching
Try a kickboxing video
Plant bulbs for next spring
Meet someone for a walk instead of for tea
I’ll do a few updates as I get things done.
If you don’t hear from me about this, feel free to comment here and ask!
If you’re a regular reader of the blog, you already know that I’ve been in the throes of botanical garden fever all year long. And a couple of weeks ago I wrote about night garden walking, lured by the promise of artful lights strewn on and around the flora. Well, the season of night lights in gardens is officially under way. My friend Janet and I recently went to Illumination Night at Garden in the Woods, an event exclusively for members. Spoiler alert: it was big fun.
The main path through the area– a cross between garden and woods, hence the name– was lit up with luminaries/luminaria(s) with real flickering votive candles inside. We were first greeted by a welcome-barn and then a lights arbor, showing us to the path.
As we entered the area, a swirl of lights greeted us.An arbor of colored lights to walk through– then we’re on the path.
Once on the path, there were the luminaries to guide us the whole way through.
It was very dark, but the luminaries guided us.The luminaries were all different patterns. Here’s one with stars.
There were loads of people there, and tons of kids delightedly running around. I heartily approved; having permission to roam around in nature after dark is a delight. And we were rewarded with a variety of cool lights– some dotting the landscape, and others grouped for maximum coolness.
A grouping of leaf-covered paper edifices, lit from within. Hundreds of colored lights in glass jars dotted a hillside.This line of white lights looked a bit like single track mountain bike trail.
And of course, because it was close to Halloween, there had to be some more ominous lights: the eyes watching us.
A pair of lighted eyes– out there in the dark, watching.
Once we got through the route, the lights were on again. We were greeted with a brightly-lit area with food vendors, picnic tables and a fire pit to hang out around.
People hung out and chatted and ate beneath strung colored paper lanterns.A few lucky folks snagged chairs at the fire area.
Of course, what outing would be complete with the obligatory selfies? I say selfies because we took two: one light and one dark. You can determine for yourself which one is better.
Janet and me. light version.Me and Janet, with glow stick accessories.
When I googled “lights at botanical gardens” I got a ton of information about the shows being put on all over the place. I already have my tickets for the Solstice walk at Mount Auburn Cemetery in mid-December, but I will be looking for more opportunities to get outside at night, strolling and chatting and oohing and aahing over lights at night.
Dear readers, have you been to any garden light events at night? Any plans to do so? I’d love to hear about it.
The Thanksgiving holiday gave me the opportunity to have a nice, slow start to my week on Monday.
I took Khalee for a walk and, even though it was windy, I took time to tune into my surroundings, noticing how the leaves have changed (or fallen), how the river noises are quieter, and how everything smells a little different right now.
It was kind of windy today but Khalee and I still enjoyed our walk. Image description: a photo of a light-haired medium-sized dog on a green leash is facing away from the camera while standing on a gravel path next to some grass. My shadow and Khalee’s are visible on the grass. Because it is late afternoon in autumn, the sun is low so our shadows are VERY long and we look disproportionately tall.
When I came home, I took down the load of clothes I had hung earlier. (It was a fine day on clothes, as the saying goes.) This task can be pretty mundane (or even boring) but today it was routine in a good way – repetitive actions with positive results.
The repeated actions of hanging (and taking down) laundry) are meditative in their own way. Image description: a line of laundry hanging in my yard on a late autumn afternoon. The sun is shining through leaves so there are patches of sun and shadow The clothesline stretches from my patio to my shed so aside from the laundry, the photo shows some potted plants, a lawn chair with a red pillow, my patio rail, and some trees and my red-painted shed in the background.
As I turned with my basket of clean clothes, I noticed how inviting my swing looked and I remembered how much I enjoyed meditating while sitting there cross-legged the other day.
Two of my favourite parts of my backyard. Image description: a photo of one corner of my yard where my brown and orange hammock hangs from two trees and a round swing with green trim hangs from one of the branches. My wooden fence is one background and my (still green!) grass is littered with crunchy brown leaves.
So I decided to meditate there again today.
No, I’m not actually meditating here, obviously. I was trying to use the back camera on my phone and took umpteen photos, each more bizarre looking than the last, and I fluked into this one. I decided to roll with it. Image description: an outdoor photo of me in my backyard. I am sitting on a round swing but it’s not visible in the photo. I am wearing a blue fleece jacket, my light brown hair is pulled back from my face in a cloth band, and my eyes are closed. I am smirking and I’m wearing one headphone. Grass, trees, my fence, (and part of my orange and brown hammock) are visible in the background.
And that brings me to 51 days of meditation in a row.
When I opened the Insight Timer app today, it offered this very appropriate quote for how I felt at the end of my meditative afternoon:
Mental health is not a destination, but a process. It’s about how you drive, not where you’re going.
– NOAM SHPANCER, PHD
I liked how, today, I have ‘driven’ myself calm instead of driving myself around the proverbial bend.
Wishing you all ease for the week ahead. Please try not to cram 5 days of work into a 4 day week. 💚⭐️
I’ve been working hard on the weekend lately. There’s just too much going on. I’m dean. I’m teaching a grad seminar. There’s the usual house stuff. I’ve got three kids who are in their 20s and visiting them these days requires some ingenuity and coordination, thanks to the pandemic.
This weekend was no exception really except for some scheduled bike rides. I’m glad I got to ride and I got to see my adult kids. I did a bunch of work but it also felt like a weekend, if you know what I mean.
Friday is the TFC’s, my Zwift bike club, namesake ride, The Friday Crit. This week’s route was RGV in France. I like the route, all beautiful scenery and rolling hills. Except at the start I got a flat in my real world bike on the trainer! I stopped. Sarah put more air in the tire and I worked hard to catch my teammate Keith who’d been riding slowly and waiting up. He’s in the blue cap below. I’m in the pink. Speaking of colours, that’s a lot of red in the screen capture below! That’s time in my highest effort zone. I ended up finishing, with Keith, and some others, somewhere in the middle of the pack. I was proud of catching up to Keith and the others and proud that in the end I took the women’s sprint jersey.
Total distance: 4 km warm up + 25 km race (45 minutes)
Saturday Sarah and I rode for pleasure, not speed, on our gravel bikes, in the outside world, on another section of the Guelph to Goderich rail trail. We started in Monkton, Ontario and covered about 16 km of the trail. At our meandering pace that took about an hour, including stops to pick apples and take photos! Some sections were wide open in farm fields, while other bits had lots of beautiful trees with gorgeous fall colours. If you’re in southwestern Ontario, I strongly recommend this trail. Even on a Saturday it was pretty quiet. The gravel is well packed and it’s easy riding.
Total distance: 16 km, about one hour
Sunday saw me back on Zwift for my club’s Sunday social ride, 6 laps around the volcano circuit in Watopia. We have a group leader with a yellow beacon who keeps the set pace of about 2 watts per kilo. This week we were so well disciplined at keeping the pace that the leader didn’t have to turn on the fence. We had lots of new riders along and team regulars kept up answering questions in the chat. We chose to race the last lap and after staying a steady pace until then it was fun to let go and go fast for the final 4 km. Whee! A fun thing for me was getting some PRs on the route and getting faster pretty much every lap, especially the last one.
Total distance: 30 km, about 50 minutes
Thanks to my friend Rob who let us use his backyard and propane heater for visiting with the London kids. My daughter Mallory is just back from a 3 day solo hiking and camping trip. She’s promised to blog about it!
Rob’s backyard also had a disco light which we all enjoyed as the patterns flickered on the trees!
