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Memories of my best fitness times and planning my fitness future

In thinking about life after knee replacement and planning my fitness life for my sixties, I’m trying to remember my happiest active times.  I’m wondering what aspects of those times it makes sense to think about getting back, as well as what new stuff I want to add.

Sam testing for 5th kyu in Aikido

And, of course, what old stuff I’m ready to give away. I mean, some things are right out of the picture.  That’s running and all sports that involve it,  like soccer.  Other things are back in,  for sure,  like recreational cycling.

But what form does this take in my ideal life?

I’m still reflecting on Tracy’s piece about how turning 60 feels different than turning 50. And part of that,  for Tracy,  seemed to be giving up on a bunch of external fitness should talk. Her interests also changed, and she’s approaching sixty with a more integrated and sustainable approach to fitness.

Writes Tracy,  “When I was approaching my fifties, I had an intensity and focus around my fitness activities that was extremely goal-oriented. I had an eye on one thing and one thing only: the Olympic distance triathlon. Though of course the goal yielded some internal change (mostly in the form of perseverance), the goal itself was external.”

Truth be told,  Tracy’s approach differed in that she had a much more ambitious goal. And she took up more new things than me.  So it’s not a surprise that our attitudes about the difference between 50 and 60 are different.

Me,  I want to get back to some aspects of the life I created leading up to 50. I loved it.  I loved the biking,  the rowing, Aikido,  and CrossFit. By the end of the challenge, I wasn’t so focused on an external goal.  Rather, the fittest by fifty challenge helped me appreciate how much physical activity matters to me and how much it’s part of my version of a good life. I might have started with an external goal–fittest by fifty–but it ended with a real love and appreciation of sport, physical activity, and joyful movement. I knew it was an important part of my life, going into the challenge, but the fittest by fifty challenge helped me appreciate how much it mattered.

My goal for the challenge was the Friends for Life Bike Rally, which I did as part of our challenge, but I did it again in August of 2022, right before my first knee replacement surgery. I don’t think I’ll manage it this year, the year I’m turning 60, but I’ve got 2025 in my sights.  I’d like to do it in my 50th and my 60th year and I’ll still be 60 then.

Fit at Midlife the book on the left,  Tracy and Sam in a publicity photo on the right

So I did keep some of my cycling fitness after the fittest by fifty challenge, and I hope to keep that up for a very long time yet.  So what’s missing for me?

There are four themes that keep coming up when I think about the fitness future I want.

First,  it’s community.  When I think back over my various fitness pursuits,  the best times involve working out with other people.  I think about bike clubs and teams,  my soccer team,  the Aikido dojo,  the rowing club,  and so on.  Even CrossFit’s appeal lay mainly in the community. Soccer, Aikido, rowing, and bike clubs are all team efforts where you work with others. I like that a lot. They’re also all community associations where people are drawn from all walks of life and from all corners of the community. It’s what I like about the Guelph Community Boating Club.

Sam and Sarah racing the snipe at Guelph Lake

Second,  it’s active, outdoor adventure. I love being outside.  I love moving my body.  The combo is perfect.

Two photos of Sam in red shirts in her canoe

Third, it’s intensity. I do my best work in teams and there’s something about the group effort that makes me work harder. Team time trials are one of my favourite kinds of bike races and they’re intense, co-operative efforts. Of course, that’s also true of rowing. I like sports that have intensity built in. I’m not sure what form that will take as I get older, but I still think about one of our earlier blog posts, about aging as a choice. Is Aging a Lifestyle Choice? I talked about Gretchen Reynold’s book on exercise science, The First Twenty Minutes: Surprising Science Reveals How We Can: Exercise Better, Train Smarter, Live Longer, where I was particularly taken with her chapter on aging,

I wrote: “The old view was that muscle loss and a decline in aerobic  capacity were inevitable with old age. We slow down with age and become more frail, starting in our 40s, it seemed. But new research suggests the connections may run the other way. We become slower and more frail because we stop moving. Older athletes get slower and less strong, not because they’re older, but rather because they train less than younger athletes.”

Sam’s bike rally team 2022

Fourth, they’ve involved some element of competition. I’ve never been a serious racer but I like club level competition, in most physical activity that I do. (Obviously that’s lacking in yoga and hiking.) It provides some benchmarking and gives a purpose to training.

So, purposeful training, outdoors, in a community, with intensity, and some competition…that’s where we are so far!

Canberra’s Vikings above,  Dunedin’s Women on Wheels below

What happened to my fitness community? Where did it go?

Well, my knees for one thing. Knee pain led to saying goodbye to running,  soccer,  Aikido and CrossFit. My big move was another. Bye-bye cycling coach and the community of cyclists I rode with in London. And then there was my big new job. That’s a lot.

Also there’s age. In Canada it’s harder to find groups that include older adults. I often think back fondly to my racing days in Australia where the master’s cycling group had an active over-80 group. You needed a doctors note to race after 80. It’s hard to imagine an active group of seniors racing bikes in Canada.

As I try to construct a ‘fitness after sixty’ plan, I’m thinking about activities in three groups–things I’m saying goodbye to, things I’m keeping and new things I want to add.

And I also want to recognize the pieces of the plan that are already in place.  Zwift hits both the community and competition buttons. The Guelph Community Boating Club is very much of the volunteer association model I like.

On the bye list are running,  soccer,  Aikido.

On the keep list are hiking,  cycling,  sailboat racing, yoga, paddling, and weightlifting.

And on the new list are bike packing and dancing. I’m not sure where to put swimming but it’s in there.

Oh, there’s also a fourth category–to pick again after retirement–rowing for sure!

Sled pushing at the gym

Look this is obviously very much a work in progress. Stay tuned!

Also, I’ve been trying for better blog post titles.

Here’s some AI suggested:

1. “Rediscovering Joy: Embracing Fitness After Knee Replacement”

2. “Creating a Vibrant Future: Planning Fitness in Your Sixties”

3. “Reflecting on Active Happiness: Reimagining Fitness After Knee Replacement”

4. “The Next Chapter: Designing a Fulfilling Fitness Journey in Your Sixties”

5. “From Recovery to Revival: Crafting a Dynamic Fitness Routine After Knee Replacement”

Let me know what you think!

2 thoughts on “Memories of my best fitness times and planning my fitness future

  1. In my Karate Dojo there is a “Silver Crane” class for folks over 55, although people in the age group can also practice with everyone in the larger group. I have practiced both Aikido and Karate, and Karate is actually easier on the knees. Something to consider in your fitness journey.

  2. I think you can write better blog titles than AI. And I think you and Tracy should write your own feminist, anti-ageist book about aging while female. Reframe the heck out of it. People who have positive outlooks on aging have better health and wellness outcomes. Combine that with your outlooks on remaining active while aging and you have a great book. Chip Connelly lacks the depth and sincerity you could bring to living well at any age. Thanks for another great post!

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