Hey Team!
My birthday is on Thursday and I thought it would be fun to celebrate here on the blog today by offering some bonus gold stars.
Celebrating effort rather than results is always my MO but I’ve decided that, from now on, I’m going to lean into that idea even harder.
Especially where my own efforts are concerned. After all, just like most people, I’m really good at seeing how hard others are working but I’m not quite as observant when it comes to myself.
So, I going to consciously, deliberately, choose to notice even my smallest amount of work whether in fitness, well-being, or any of my projects.
That’s my gift to *me* for my birthday – I’m going to notice my efforts and I’m going to do what I can to ‘smooth the path’ for those efforts to be most effective. (More on that later.)
Now, as much as I would like to invite you all to a party where we could share a giant cake, the logistics on that are just impossible so, I’m going to invite you to do these two things instead.
1) Please consider joining me in noticing your own effort. This could range from making a mental note to a full toddler-parent-style reaction “Look at you doing squats! Aren’t you terrific? I’m so proud of you!”
2) Please comment below and tell me what you are claiming a bonus star (or stars) for today. This could range from ‘I remembered to look away from my computer and blink a few times so my eyes didn’t go wonky’ to ‘I stretched my neck while I was on the phone’ to ‘I meditated’ to ‘I wrote in my journal’ to ‘I biked to work.’ Or, to go in a different direction ‘I chose to rest because I’m not feeling well.’ Or ‘I walked instead of running because that’s what my body needs today.’
It’s all good work, Team, and your efforts deserve to be celebrated.
Here are 5 different stars for you to enjoy. Step right up and claim them!
And, as always, please be kind to yourself today and always.
I wish you ease.
And cake. I also wish you cake (or an equivalent delightful treat of your choice.)





WELL, I did an amazing job just before I read this by stretching and exercising my scrolling hand.
“You hung some clothes up —- TERRIFIC!”, I tell myself.