I love to skate. I grew up figure skating, but when I started to teach power and hockey skating classes nearly a decade ago, I got myself a pair of hockey skates– and I loved them! Since then, I’ve always wanted to play hockey, but it took me up until a few months ago (when I moved to Halifax) to actually gain the courage to give it a shot.
All these years, I’ve avoided playing hockey because I was skeptical about finding equipment that would fit my curvy, short, and muscular body. I was afraid that if I did manage to find equipment, I wouldn’t be able to skate with the extra bulk on my already bulky body. And I was terrified that I was going to look ridiculous with all that equipment on. I imagined that my body in hockey equipment would look more like the Michelin Man (yup, that big puffy tire mascot), than a hockey player.
Deep down, I told myself that it would be less embarrassing and easier if I just lost some weight before I started playing hockey. Ugh… my feminist-self is embarrassed that I felt this kind of body shame!
Waiting to lose weight before trying a recreational sport (or living your life!) is silly. I know. But, it still took me years (of not losing weight) and moving to a new city (where nobody I knew would get to see me playing in full hockey gear) to finally try something that I didn’t think I had the “right” body shape for.
When it came time to actually buy the hockey gear, it turned out to be less embarrassing, but way more challenging than I had imagined.
I curbed some of my embarrassment by bringing a hockey-gear-shopping buddy. I told her that her job was to make sure that my butt didn’t look “too big” in my hockey pants—ha! But really, she was the moral support that I needed. It was nice to have someone on my team when exposing myself and my body to the sales guys at the sports store. With her support, it felt easier to tell the sales guy that something didn’t fit and to explain what I needed for my body. (Telling the teenaged sales guy that “my boobs and butt are too big for this gear” felt less embarrassing with my friend’s support). Most of all, it helped having my friend there to tell me just how exciting my new hockey adventure was going to be. She told me that I looked like a hockey ninja with all my gear on. And it helped.
Finding gear that fit me properly was a different story. Before I started I Googled “best hockey equipment for curvy women” and nothing came up. I wasn’t that surprised. I don’t look anything like the men or women I’d seen playing hockey.
Here’s what I learned about hockey equipment: In general, the men’s gear is too long for my body. The women’s gear is too narrow. Most stores don’t carry that many options for women’s gear, anyways. Some children’s gear (like the XL hockey pants) fit okay, but the straps and padding on most of the other children’s gear are way too small. I haven’t been able to find should pads and chest protectors that fit my shoulder to boob ratio. It seems that to women’s chest protectors don’t have cup size options. Nor have I been able to find elbow or shin pads that are short enough, while providing good coverage with straps that are long enough to go around my arms and legs.
I’ve chatted with some of my teammates about this. And some of them had similar problems with finding hockey equipment. If there are any hockey gear manufacturers reading this, how about you make some equipment for differently shaped women!?
In the end, I settled on some combination of men’s and children’s hockey gear. Still, none of my gear fits me perfectly, but it will have to do—because I’m excited to play!
On the ice, I adjusted pretty quickly to wearing hockey equipment. The hardest thing to get used to was wearing a helmet with a cage. For the first few games, the cage made me feel nauseous, but at least I could skate.
My concerns about what I look like in full hockey gear are fading. In the beginning, however, I did catch myself checking out my reflection in the rink glass a few times. But the more I play and the better I get, the less I give a shit about what I look like.
And it turns out that no one else cares about what I look like either. When I finally let some of my friends come to watch me play they didn’t think that I, or anyone else, looked ridiculous or out of place. To them, we all looked like hockey players, because we were playing hockey.
Surprisingly, I still don’t know what I look like in my gear. Because it doesn’t matter.
What matters is that I get to play. And this little hockey ninja wishes that she hadn’t waited so long to try playing in the first place.
Angel is a postdoc at Dalhousie University. She completed her Ph.D. at the University of Western Ontario. She is a feminist philosopher. She is also a skater— and the rink is where she feels most at home.
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5 thoughts on “Do These Pants Make My Butt Look Big? Hockey Equipment and Body Image (Guest Post)”
Woo hoo! I am inspired to try something new!
I was a goalie for 20 years, and it’s even more challenging. Chest-and-arm protectors are not made for breasts, and (large) breasts change the fit of them drastically, compromising the safety of the gear in some areas. For example, the chest area is pulled out farther, exposing your ribs to the puck. Even without it, it doesn’t take too many slapshots to the breast to make you realize more coverage there would be good. I used to buy chest-and-arm protectors with longer shoulder floaters to cover my breasts, and then cut off the arms and shorter them at the shoulder to get them to fit close to right.
As for leg pads, well, at least you can get those custom made.
Hockey is a wonderful sport – I have you have a fabulous time playing it!
Do you know that some women are getting but implants and crying for a big but? I am not one I like minè as it is
That’s hilarious honestly, I’m a guy that’s been playing hockey since I was like, 2. My ass is gigantic from it, the skating involved apparently is mostly butt and hip muscles. It’s even gotten to the point where hockey apparel companies make pants specifically for guys with a hockey butt
I have been playing hockey since I was a little girl (my brother’s team needed a goalie). Over the years I have seen some crazy hockey equipment come and go. There was a time that girls had to wear jocks because it was a rule in minor hockey, thank heavens for the invention of the jill. When I was in my teens women’s shoulder pads were invented. Basically they looked like breast plates female vikings in operas wore. They were for protection but to also give us breasts under our jerseys, sigh! I wear all male hockey gear because I have hips and a waist of the same dimensions, sort of like a guy and I am fairly tall. Its nice to see that someone with a little sense is making equipment to fit us all.
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