Making Space 2023: Day 30 – Part 2

I made a mistake when scheduling today’s post and instead of going up today, it went up yesterday.

I’m annoyed that I did that but I guess I just have to make space (ha!) for the occasional mistake.

I have linked to what was supposed to be today’s post below and seeing as I have a little extra space here (there I go again with the space!) I just want to add this reminder for you:

In these last two days of the year, the accomplishment posts and the aspirational posts will be everywhere.

You don’t have to participate in all of that unless it makes you happy to do so.

You can opt out of all of that sort of accounting and planning.

This time of year only has the meaning you decide to give it and if the changing of the year feels weird or doesn’t fee like a big deal, so be it.

If people ask you about your accomplishments or your plans and you don’t feel like saying that you aren’t participating in that stuff, you can tell them that not talking about it is a key part of the plan.

You know, something like – “Oh, I can’t discuss it at this stage, it affects the subconscious part of the process.”

That way you give yourself space (again!) to do things your own way without having to deal with the static of other people’s approaches.

No matter how you approach the next few days, I wish you ease and I wish space – space to breathe, space to think, space to do what you want, space to be yourself, space free from the pressure of other people’s opinions.

I know it’s not always possible to have those things but it’s worth a try.

And here’s the post that was supposed to be here right now:

Making Space 2023: Day 30