For some of us, this is Christmas Eve.
For some of us this is just Wednesday.
For many of us, it’s something in between.
For all of us, it’s near the end of a busy month.
At this point, it’s really hard to know what kind of space we might need to make for ourselves.
Maybe we need some focus.
We may need something restful to do.
We might need to make space for movement.
We may need a mindful activity (and, remember, almost any activity can be done mindfully!)
And all of those needs are important and they all matter – because YOU matter and the things YOU need are just as important as all of the other needs you support on a day-to-day basis.
So today I’m inviting us all to find ways, even small ways, to give ourselves what we need right now.
Maybe you don’t have time for the hour long nap that you need, but perhaps you have time for a short break that will be helpful even if it doesn’t fully meet your needs.
Maybe you need a half an hour of high intensity exercise to sort your cluttered thoughts. But if you don’t have half an hour right now, maybe you can do a shorter workout and do some sort of list that gets all of those things out of your brain so you can see them clearly.
Maybe you need a long, slow meditation to soothe your nervous system and help you feel more like your favorite self. But if you are feeling hurried and frustrated, that might feel impossible right now. Perhaps you can try for a shorter version of your usual practice or you can ask yourself what ELSE helps you to feel like your favourite self and give that a try.
(When I take my list out of my head onto paper onto a screen, it becomes easier for me to see which ones actually need to be done. Which ones I can delegate and which ones can actually wait quite a while before they need to get done but inside my brain, they feel equally important.)
I guess the key thing here is to recognize that it is OK for you to need something and it’s OK for you to try to meet that need, even if you have to do a smaller version for now.
I know you probably have a lot of competing priorities and a lot of things to get done for others but please try not to put your needs at the very bottom of your list.
And no matter what you need right now, what you want right now, or what you have to deal with at the moment, positive or negative, I wish you ease with it.
As much as possible, may you have peace in your heart and in your mind.
Here are two movement practice suggestions for today:
And here are two mindfulness practices for you to try.

